No Smoking in BARS...??What is the point in going!

Well as a smoker I am completely outraged by this new ban on smoking in bars and restaurants. Any smoker/drinker will tell you..the reason for going to bar is so you can do both. You cant drink without having a smoke! That is just ridiculous. All it does is makes you irrated and want to cuss out the bartender for telling you to go outside! Restaurants, I am not so mad at. I mean I dont want to smell ciggarrette smoke while I am eating. So that I agree with but a bar. I mean there is a expectancy of smoke at a bar. Therefore if you are a non smoker than you know your risk going in. People have been smoking since colombus landed his ass on plymouth rock..and all of sudded it is a problem. Shit is going to happen people. You can run and ban this and that but truth is if it is meant to happen it will. How bout a mandatory ban on sex without a condom or marriage. See what happens then. The one damn thing we have they tax the hell out of it for punishment. There are so many other things you can punish people with outrages taxes. Coffee, Tea, Beer, those damn "go green" bags..do something else..stop picking on us! They are exploiting the fact that if you are a smoker you are going to pay 10.00 a pack for ciggarettes because you have a habit. Therefore the government is getting over on that. Its like charging a baby 2.00 extra for every pamper he uses in one day. He has to have them so why not milk it for all its worth. Then there is word of making it a crime to smoke around minors..ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME! So now the government is telling us how to raise our kids? WTF! What about pregnant mothers who are addicted to nicotine..get pregnant and still smoke? What then? Lock up the crack head mamas who abandoned there kids to whereever and steady had them....that is a damn crime. No you shouldnt smoke around kids..but that is up to each family and not the governments place. What next..cant drink a damn beer around your kids, cant have sex in the house if your kids are still home..UGH. The government has and always will frustrates me. They focus on the damnest shit..but the real items are overlooked and not even glance at. Well to all the bars in Virginia....your business will go down. I know a few people who dont smoke and those who do..aint about to sit in no bar without a ciggarette..you can stay home for that..of course unless you have minors under 18 around......

HighWaisted Jeans!!!!! Hot or Not?

Well. I think Beyonce looks h-a-w-t in high waisted jeans. As well as anyone on any BET video. But clearly...clearly people they are not made for everyone. Now being a person of "girth" I am the first to say if you dont like it dont look. Also if they make it in my size..dammit I am going to wear it. Well Well Well..put my foot in my mouth...DEEP! I thought they look so good. Hell I even seen former Bad Girl Tanisha with a pair on the reunion show. So I was hell bent on getting a pair. I should have took the hint when every store I went to, the size stopped at 13/14. Hmmph..I was stil determined. Finally I found a pair. I bought the collar shirt and some heels..was going to look fierce. So one day I went out and decided to be FIERCE. I looked in the mirror...and was horrified. I look nothing like beyonce or hell Tanisha for that matter. I have a gut and those pants emphasized that gut to the fullest. So ladies not everything is for us. There are ways around this new craze in pants pulled up to your breast. Opt for the leggings and tunic look. Opt for a fierce shirt and shoes and pants that are comfortable and flattering..and you still will be in style! Besides most of us are living through the 80's twice. I thought once was a enough. Besides if things go as predictated the 90's will be back and so will baggy jeans!!LOL

H.I.V. positive teen gets paternity test!

Okay. I am very sympathetic towards any person who gets H.I.V from birth. All I am saying is how irresponsible is it to bring a child in this world, knowing that there is a 50/50 chance of getting H.I.V? So on todays episode of Maury a teenager was actually on there to get a paternity test for her daughter. The first two things came to mind, why and who is the guy who braved to have sex unprotected with an H.I.V positive girl. What WERE THEY THINKING. Here I am kicking my own ass because I have 3 kids, which means I had unprotected sex 3 times, and thanking my lucky stars I didnt contract H.I.V.

To knowingly not use a condom with someone who is H.I.V. positive is just irresponsible. Now there is a precious baby..who thank GOD is negative but here not knowing if her mother will survive and her father may have the disease now or could contract it because after the show they got back together. It was proven to be his daughter.

Everyone out there please take more precautions. Protect yourself and protect your future. I wish those people the best. But I hope others out there will see how irresponsible those actions are and decide to "rap it up"!

10 Ways to spot a womanizer or a loser..your pick!

10. He tells you he loves you 3 days into meeting him.

9. He wants to meet your mother and thank her for having you 1 week after meeting you.

8. He never takes you out to dinner.(ex. he opts for the 10pc special at KFC)

7. He only gives you his cell number and when you cant reach him the excuse is "something is wrong with it"

6. When you DO go out...you always have to drive.

5. He claims to have a plasma, leather furniture, a bar at his home...but you have no clue where that is.

4. His has more than one baby mama!

5. He has the nerve to "borrow" 10.00 til Friday..and Friday never comes!

4. He doesn't speak of a job..but yet he has a new Coogi shirt on everytime you see him

3. The cell phone rings while you are with him...and he keeps hitting ignore!

2. Its been 4 months in your relationship..and he has called you from jail at least 2 times because of child support.

1. The shoes ladies..the shoes tell the story of a man. If they busted..so is he..if they clean and never worn..he may be into more entrepeneurship than you think, and if they dont match a thing he has on...he is broke!